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MILITARY SPOUSE Q+A! Deployment, Money, Benefits, Etc 3

I was kind of excited to come here like. I didn't know. Anything so my age right now is 19. I have just always like. I have my moments obviously. Everybody has their moments but I feel like for my age I'm mature like career-wise and just my age I'm mature so. I I didn't really expect. Anything coming into marriage but nothing surprised. I don't know. I would say just because of my maturity level. I wasn't surprised by. Anything I didn't have to really learn.

Anything because before. Me Nelson got married. I was already working and paying my own bills a lot of you guys are still teenagers like I'm 19 I'm still a teenager but you guys are teenagers to where. You guys don't work. You guys are still living with your parents so. I feel like for you. That would be a little bit different just. Because you're moving to another state. You are stationed somewhere else and you kind of just get thrown out in the middle of the road and you got to find your way to the sidewalk okay so that's me that's basically. It is moving out of your parents house but luckily for me I didn't have to experience a hit like.

That a lot of the questions are. If mine and Austin's relationship has changed since getting married honestly no. It has made. Us fall in love with. Each other more just. Because it's just. Something we've dreamt about for a very long time and like. I said we've been through a lot together like I'll leave the I'll leave. That video link down below talking about our story but we've been through hell and back and I think. That made us stronger and it just made. Us appreciate marriage and being together a lot. More so no it has not changed. I feel like. It changed for the better also a lot of the questions are about communication so.

Me and Austin can talk let's see. We can talk. I stay up until 12:00 o'clock at night every night. We can talk for about 10 minutes. Because he is getting ready to go to work for the day and I'm going to bed and then. We can talk for two hours in the morning if I'm not at work so communication is fine just. Because I don't work. All day anyways. While he's sleeping so. It doesn't really matter so. I see a lot of questions about living on base like. You should live off of base on base personally. I like living on base. I think it's cheaper our housing isn't bad at all like. I really like our house like. You were to get an older housing unit. I don't know how.

That would be but shoot for one of the new houses and no. You could not pick your house but you have the option to turn a house down and wait for a house addy asked is it hard not knowing what he is doing all the time no. I feel like my 15 year old self would be like yes it's horrible. I need to know what he's doing all the time but now. I know that he works. I know that he goes home. That sometimes. He goes to the bar. We have trust in. Each other so. I don't need to know. I don't really need to know or want to know what are. You doing 24/7 honestly as I'm saying I don't care. Where he's at but there's an app called 360 life. I think it's 360 life and you can actually see. Where like your family is even. How fast they drive.

Where they're at where. They leave what time. They left many times. They were on their phone. When they're driving Austin and I are on that app together and my whole family is on that app just. Because I am in Missouri alone so. I want my family to know that I'm okay like I'm awesome to know I'm okay but Austin is on that app so. Whenever I do want to know what's going on I can just kind of look and where he's at Brandi asked are the neighbors on base nice also are. You friends with. Any of them so actually I've actually done my whole street the street behind. Me in the side street. That I'm on I've done every single.

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