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MILITARY SPOUSE Q+A! Deployment, Money, Benefits, Etc 2

We we have benefits just like. You worked like. I work at Macy's and Macy's gives. Me benefits like health benefits like military gifts it's like. I don't know. I don't know what people think. That I a lot of people think. That I married Austin for the military money I'm be honest with. You I make than my husband being a makeup artist and not to put my husband down. We laugh about it all the time and we always joke about it. How he's the trophy husband and it's just funny but I don't know like. I posted at that house to her and everybody said oh.

They only got married because of the military like no. I was in it for the money. I would be gone like. This second. I moved on to base of course the more you move up the more you get paid but just like. Any normal job the more you get promoted the more you get paid so. You have to work for it you don't just. You don't just join and you're making $100000 a year like no people think. That I married Austin. Because we love.

Each other and we have been together for a very long time yeah it's not like. I just met him. I was 18 was like oh my god he's in the military I'm gonna marry him for the benefits so maybe for some people but what I know. You were marrying for money in the military wrong Chili's sister so a lot of the comments are about getting married young. How did you handle comments about you getting married young yes you're just got to deal with.

You really love the person. That you're with. Us shouldn't get to you it didn't get to me at all Carly asked. What advice do. You have for someone who's boyfriend is stationed overseas. I am about almost a month into. That I can't really give a bunch of tips. Because this is our first deployment and if. You guys don't know. He he is overseas but I don't know. Something is wrong with. Me or I don't know but everyone is always asking me like. How are you the way. That you are. While your husband is overseas it's not. That sad to me anymore the all the only thing I would say is the first day. That he left. I came home and I was so I'm gonna cry see. It like you have your own. You have your moments but it's okay.

Because it's gonna happen like I'm not gonna sit here and say oh my god like let. Me get off camera and stop crying because that's not reality but I will say. That first day. That he left. I felt so depressed. I didn't eat for like three days. I didn't know what to do with myself and but you just have to get into a routine. You get into a routine like. You wake up. You go to work. You come home with dinner or whatever. You don't have a job. I highly recommend. You get a job. Because I don't know. You have kids but if. You don't have kids. I don't know how. These wives stay home. You stay home and your husband is deployed and you have no reason to stay home let. Me know how. That like I would drive myself nuts just get in a routine like my routine is work. All the time. You guys know full-time cosmetic manager for Macy's I Drive an hour to get to work every day so. I do not have a lot of time on my hands to sit around and cry. Because my husband is gone.

Even it's weird at night like. I think I'm broken. Because at night. I love the bed. All to myself and I feel like I've said. This multiple times like right now I'm kind of loving it. Because I have my space. I still talked to him every day and I'll get to that in a second but I have my space. You know like he's not my but to look for seven I'm probably gonna start missing that in about a month or two so. That is all for that question and oh my gosh. You guys in almost a week it'll be a month since. He left like. I feel like. That just flew by so Emily asked has getting married so young changed. You a lot did. You have to learn a lot. All at once I'm gonna be honest no just. Because me nonsan have been through so much so.

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